My fearless little flyer who’s ready to travel with me at the drop of a hat. Juanito Chiquito!
I’m always fascinated to hear of the voyages of friends and colleagues far and wide. At 46, I’ve never had a passport – though, I’ve dreamed of one. I did lots of traveling between states as a teenager, mainly with my church and absolutely loved it! However, I didn’t have quite the traveling bug in my early 20s (and now, I wish I would have)! Somewhere between wife-ing and mom-ing four spirited boys, I surmised, “Aaaaaa, traveling altogether out of the country would be really challenging, especially because they’re so small!”
Nevertheless, I thought I could still try some things within the States, especially after we moved away from my home of 37 years in Houston. Most of the family that I grew up with is still there! I’ll tell you, that airport security line with six people with devices is quite a colorful experience, but we manage! Each trip has been fun, even when just going back between Texas and Colorado. I travel more frequently between the two states on my own, typically for speaking engagements; but, last week (for the first time), I took just the two Littles with me…and I noticed a few things.
I love the fearlessness of my boys, especially my Littlest Little. Whenever he finds out that he gets to go anywhere on a plane, he’s excited and elated! Because I know my kids, I didn’t tell them until the morning of. It was akin to, “Hey, we’re going to see Grandma in Texas! I packed your bags, so let’s get up, get dressed and get going!” There was no pushback, few questions and enthusiasm galore. That, I expected, and I was terribly tickled! Among the things that I loved, is that Little People in general have so few inhibitions. Unlike their adult counterparts, they’re not weighed down by “what-ifs?” They often recognize the potential for adventure, and they’re ready for the ride.
In his eagerness, he reminded me of a few things: 1) Age is a stage, but not a determinant. Start the next thing of interest as much as your capacity will allow you. 2) Approach the unknown with an open mind. Risk is a part of everything, but adventure can be around the corner, and 3) Don’t worry about who’s around you! You may be going in the same direction, but you’re on two different journeys. Speed up when you need to, slow down if necessary, and pass if you have to. The most important thing is that you enjoy the path. So, what do I say to my next adventure? Take me there…
My little Spiderman is full of an enviable confidence. I know he’s learning from me, but I think it’s more befitting to say that we’re learning from each other.
P.S. We had no small battle about whether he would wear those PJs in the airport. I told him PJs were for bedtime only. Needless to say, I conceded defeat – and I’m glad he did! He wore them proudly. Another lesson learned for me, LOL.
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